"Church is not a meeting you attend or a place you enter. It is an identity that is ours in Christ. It is an identity that shapes the whole of life so that life and mission become 'Total Church'." from the book Total Church
Are your life and mission so connected that church is who you are and not a place you go?
Is your identity wrapped up in your church or is it just a part of life?
Is it reasonable to expect people to see church as a part of the core of who they are?